Men, It’s Time: Why You Deserve a Safe Space to Work on Your Mental Health

Men, It’s Time: Why You Deserve a Safe Space to Work on Your Mental Health Hey there— If you’re reading this, there’s a good chance something inside you knows it’s time for a change. Maybe you’re tired of feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or constantly misunderstood. Maybe you’re struggling in your relationships, your work, or just in […]
The Power of Seeing the Best in Your Partner

The Power of Seeing the Best in Your Partner—Even on the Hard Days Relationships are built in the everyday moments—the quiet dinners, shared laughter, miscommunications, and even the hard conversations. But one of the most overlooked ways to strengthen a relationship is choosing to see the best in your partner, especially when things feel frustrating, […]
Understanding Betrayal Trauma: Why It Hurts So Deeply and How to Begin Healing

Understanding Betrayal Trauma: Why It Hurts So Deeply and How to Begin Healing As a therapist who works closely with individuals and couples navigating trauma, I can tell you—few wounds cut as deep as betrayal trauma. Whether it’s discovering infidelity in a relationship, uncovering years of deception, or recognizing that someone you trusted has violated […]
Why Communication Isn’t the Problem

Why Communication Isn’t the Problem—It’s What You’re Avoiding When couples come into therapy, one of the most common things they say is, “We just need to work on our communication.” And while it’s true that healthy communication is essential in any relationship, “communication issues” are rarely the core problem. More often, what’s being labeled as […]
Navigating a Romantic Relationship with a Narcissist: Insights and Strategies

Navigating a Romantic Relationship with a Narcissist: Insights and Strategies Romantic relationships thrive on mutual respect, empathy, and compromise. But when one partner exhibits narcissistic traits, these foundational elements can feel elusive. Navigating a relationship with a narcissist requires awareness, strong boundaries, and a commitment to your emotional well-being. Here, we delve into the dynamics […]
Blended Christmas

This year we will have fourteen people at our Christmas dinner table. This includes my mom and her husband, as well as our six kids plus four of their significant others. I can only imagine the additional pandemonium at our home once grandkids are part of the picture. It is fun to have a buzzing […]
Therapy Tips – 10 Ways To Make The Most Out Of Your Therapy

Shop around for the right therapist for you. Therapists are people. And some people can be annoying! Although it isn’t necessary that you like your therapist and want to meet them for coffee, it certainly helps if you find them affable and approachable. In order to get the full benefits of therapy you have to […]